Monday, June 21, 2010

Happy Birthday to me..


This year i will be celebrating my 24th birthday. What do we celebrate during birthday?? As each year pass by the feeling and meaning of celebrating birthday will change with our age....so this year is enjoy what i have now and appreciate what i have...

1st present for me is visiting Mount Kinabalu with ODA. This trip back to Sabah we successfully hike up Mount KK with very fine weather and every one return safely. From childhood i wished to climb Mount KK , just beofre that i do not have the chance to visit this mountain. Really thanks ODA for giving me the chance to lead and visit this mountain. Besides beautiful scenery, i learned new things, gather back together to hike..catch up with Miing Rueng and ODA.... It certainly feels good to hike with someone that we trust and know each other

Besides that this 4 days 3 nights makes me recall back a few memories....the first one is the SUSU SEGAR ...i remember when we were young, mom will buy this milk from a friend/from shop(could not remember). When the milk is available in the house, mom will heat up the milk for us to drink before we went to school...i still can remember when the milk is heated up, there will be a layer of milk fat on top of the milk...and the milk tasted so goooooddddd........really miss that time and that milk......When we have it , we do not know how lucky/blessed we are...until when we lost it only we know how nice it was......but each stages of life leaves different memories...i am sure that susu segar will be one of the nicest memories i will keep.

So i saw the milk at supermarket, i bought one small packet and drank it all up :) It was a nice sweet back memory lane.....so before departing back to Sibu, i planned to buy a packet on the way to airport...but time is short and could not buy one.
The funny things is , when i am back to Sibu, i saw the same brand of milk at a supermaket (faint)...but i am sure i wont buy any of them in here, as i think it will not be as fresh as in Sabah......

I love avocados...saw plenty of them in Sabah and the price are cheap too. During the days in Sabah, mom will make avocado milk shake for us to drink occasionally. Nice smooth milky juice......good for the skin and body(i think). This time before leaving for Sarawak, we still manage to went to a Pasar Borong for all the agriculture goods. Bought few kg of avocado back here and also some vegetable to bring back. Also we (ah pang,chian ni, bee suan and miing rueng) bought a few coconuts to drink.

Special thanks to all my friend that wished me happy birthday...for me, a sincere birthday wish from heart is all i need...thanks you again.!! Besides that sure wanna thanks my family for being there all this years for me. Received an sms for my mom early morning wishing me "Happy birthday n many return of d day. Owe u one mee sua"..... I love mee sua..:) ... my birthday is my day, but for me i take it as my mom's and dad's day. If for me to choose i will cook back a bowl of mee suan for my mom. Not her cooking for me....but still mom's cooking is the best, looking forward for it. While my dad sms me "HAPPY BIRTHDAY to u my son. Is your bussiness growth?" i reply thanks dad, yap growing now...haha.....if i can choose to celebrate my birthday, i will choose to eat a nice bowl of mee suan at home together with family members and stephanie. Sure besides parent still have my sisters blessings..thanks you and love you all too ya..:) Not forgetting stephanie, love you too.. all i need is just your wishes and blessings and a song my heart will fell warmth....love you too...

I won't forget my 2008 birthday June. That time i was working as part time at Mydin USJ as salesman..staying at my 3rd uncles place. As usual start work at 10am- 10pm. ..lunch by myself, dinner by my self..the most loneliest birthday i had..and i can tell you the feeling in not so good yea..the heart feel 酸酸 (sour) like tat...but after work returned to my uncles place, there a cake for me !!. I still can remember it is a banana cake. Bought by my auntie(Thanks Tong Gu and 3Gim). My mom is in Sarawak, i'm in KL. She call my aunt and ask her to help buy a cake for me to celebrate....i cried that night.....
The next day, 23rd june, one of my best friend, Yiiping, take bus all the way from Setapak to Usj to find me lunch. When i met him, his hand was holding a birthday cake!!!..man, i could not describe the feeling....both of us dine at KFC and ate the cake. Really good to have you. I won't forgot this moment ever....

2009 june i survived the crash, thank god for giving me a 2nd chance. The wish i had last year is thanks you for giving a chance and looking forward to life. This year, i'm in Sibu, mom is in KL. That night after celebrated with stephanie's family, my mom call her to thank her mom for celebrating my birthday with me and cooking a mee sua for me. My mom did not told me she called stephanie to thank her parents. Stephanie told me my mom called her. Before that, my mom ask me to go to coffee shop that sell mee sua and buy myself one bowl. I told her i ate at stephanie's house d. She could not cook for me here, that's why she asked me to go to coffee shop to eat. But knowing i ate d, she called and thank stephanie's parent. I cried again..

Although she is not around, she will make sure i get to eat mee sua. That's my mom !!! I am sure all of our parents are like that. Secretly wishing, caring for us. I could not say directly to both of you, because i am sure i will cry. So would like to use this space to say, I love you ma and pa. Happy Parents day today...you are the fire of my LIFE !!!

As i said before when a child leaves home for studies, he/she is consider an adult and start their own new life journey, that means time to be at home is lesser. For those who are still at home, appreciate it and enjoy it....

As chinese proverbs says, 在家靠父母,在外靠朋友。 Thanks to my friends that celebrate my birthday with me and thanks for the cakes and present too ya. Really good to have you guys....different life stages we have different friends..just sometimes we have to put in some effort to make the relationship going on..So guys see you next time out ya. Not forgetting stephanie's family members that celebrated my birthday with me too..her mom cooked a bowl of mee sua for me.. make me feel at home again....

Lastly, really appreciate what i have ( friends/collegues, family, soulmate, ODAs) without all of you, i would not become what i am as today and would not be as strong as today. We encounter different life challenges everyday...just remember appreciate and 感恩 will makes everything ok. Life is not as complicated as it seems..cheers !!! and BRING IT ON!!!!! Wish all of you have a great year ahead !!!! And see you soon !!!